Northern Lights                    Therapy & Counseling

     You have tried everything you know how to do and nothing works!  You tried punishment, rewards, behavior charts, using strategies that work with other kids, but your child is angry, talks back, refuses to cooperate. You  feel very alone, blamed, and judged. People give you that look saying "control your child.... what kind of parent are you?"  Then, there is that all too often unwanted and usually ineffective advice from people who have no idea what you are going through.  You feel that you are not a good parent.  You find yourself becoming angry at your child.  You spend much of your time walking on eggshells and most of your time and effort goes into keeping your child on track.  You are exhausted.  You worry about your child and what will happen when s/he grows up.  Will they be successful and happy?   Because right now it feels like that will NEVER happen. It is very frustrating and upsetting when your child is having behavior and/or emotional problems.   

     There are many reasons why children get "off track."  Parenting often has to be addressed but be assured, many behavioral problems are Not Your Fault! Children with behavioral issues usually need to be parented in ways somewhat different from "normal" children. I understand!! I provide support for parents and families as well as techniques that generally work.  Nobody gave you an instruction manual but I can help you fill in the gaps. Be hopeful!  Help is closer than you think.    I am here to help. Call me or text me today for a free consultation.